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13 and havent had my period...is this normal??
Q. Hi i'm 13 and i haven't had my period yet. Is this bad? also even if i haven't had my period masturbation is still ok right?...
A. 24 January 2008: i wudnt worry about it hunnie its very normal i didnt start mine til late 14 x... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 10 January 2008: i wudnt say it does tbh cos a bigger penis sometimes can be quite painfull i wud say its more about how good you are at foreplay and technique than size x... (read in full...)
How should I give him oral sex, for the most pleasure?
Q. I really would like to know how to give him the best oral sex I can, so how should this be done? Please help me!...
A. 9 January 2008: Tips for you doing it to him: 1. Act like you want to be there. A woman who's performing simply because she has to is the number-one passion killer. 2. Don't bite (unless he asks for it). Keep your teeth covered at all times with your lips. 3. Don'... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to him. How do I avoid ruining my marriage?
Q. I fell in love with my husband with just one look nearly 6 years ago. Then I met his good friend and fell in 'lust'. Immediately. This was probably 4 or 5 years ago. We recently started chatting online, and the flirting has gotten pretty ...
A. 8 January 2008: if you love your husband you will not cheat on him especially with his friend. its the worst thing to do i know it may be hard but lust is a short term thing and i think you just have to get over it x x... (read in full...)
How do I know if I love him?
Q. my basic question is how do i know if i love him. i met my boyfriend in a 12-17aged nightclub. i am fourteen and so is he. we hav been going out now for about 4 weeks and i feel different towards him than any1 else i have been with. maby it i...
A. 8 January 2008: firstly, dont worry about the long term relationship as my succesful 3 year relationship is still going strong and started off long distance.
second, dont worry about not knowing what your feelings are hun knowing that you love him will take a long... (read in full...)
I never got an orgasm, what is wrong with me?
Q. rite this is really embarasing im 15. when i masterbate i dont get an orgasim or come, i have never done anything with a boy before, just a kiss. i have never had a proper realtionship either. when i finger myself i dont get any pleasure out of it ...
A. 8 January 2008: This is in no way abnormal, when iwas younger i had no pleasure in fingering, when i was 15 i had only just kissed a boy, when you do one day go further with a boy you will find it much more pleasing and exiting i can assuere you and most probably ... (read in full...)
Should I be pregnant at this age?
Q. Me and my boyfriend has had sex without a condom loads off times in the past month to hav a baby because last year we found out i was pregnant but got an abortion because we was not ready but now i dont no if i am pregnant now because i hav just ...
A. 8 January 2008: hunnie you are still very young and think to yourself do u have enuf time and money to support a baby? your playing with a life here x... (read in full...)
I terminated our child and ended the relationship, I'm very confused
Q. I love my boyfriend somuch but we've come to the end of the road with our relationship. I have tolerated alot of pain from him. I yarn for closeness and committment from my boyfriend but he is never ready for me. He only yarns for me when he wants ...
A. 7 January 2008: i know it is my opinion but i would say leave this guy and go for your new one you have found, forget about the past and start a new life you deserve to be treated with respect not to be shoved around mentally by this guy xx... (read in full...)
Already a mother at 21, pregnant again, do I keep it?
Q. hi i have a 1 year old little girl with my parnter who i have been with for 3 years now im only 21 my self and i have fell pregnant again with the same man of couse im not sure what to do do i keep it or do i get rid of it my partner wants it...
A. 7 January 2008: i am an only child but i have half brothers and sisters who stop by sometimes, from your childs perspective as they grow older they would like to have someone to play with confide with and who cares about them, this is something that i missed but ... (read in full...)
Troublesome daughter!!
Q. Hi i'm a mother of 2 one 17 next month and the other is 20. My youngest is my daughter and ther eldest is my son. Well my daughter has this friend and they have known each other since they were little and me and his mum are/were friends too. This ...
A. 7 January 2008: is the problem that she wants to be in the same bed as him? or that she doesnt want to be in the same bed?
I suggest that if they want to be in the same bed togetehr let them be.. however if she wants to be in a different bed all that much the... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are in love?
Q. hiya! i was just wondering: how do you know if you are really in love? cus the guy im with well i dunno if i love him. ive been with him for about 6 months. i dont really feel i have opened up but i want to know if theres a point in a rela...
A. 7 January 2008: Love is different for everyone, does anyone actually know what love is, i think that love is where you can tell your partner anything, feel peaceful with them, respect for them, care for them and would do anything to keep them happy.
Love happ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and in love with my cousin
Q. i am 16 years old and im in love whith my female cousin what should i do??? ...
A. 7 January 2008: how do you know your in love with her? do you honestly feel that you care for her, respect her, would die for her? i think that its probably a crush which will be hard to get over but if its not i still suggest you try to get over her as you are ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my fathers death
Q. hi guys my father passed away this year im ohnistly down about it i never had time to grief i had to go to school 3 days later for some reason my mother thought after 3 days everything would be fine at school a week or so later i had to go to ...
A. 7 January 2008: hunnie you need to have time to grieve i know you might not have time to spare but after school or something to to a place where you know there may not be many people about and just think about him, tell yourself hes gone but he always will be there ... (read in full...)
My conversation dries up. Any advice?
Q. Hey, I have a strange issue. Everytime I pickup my girlfriend from her place we always talk about things that happened the day before and our friends and whats been going on and the conversation lasts 20-30 minutes depending on how long it takes to...
A. 7 January 2008: what you need to do is ask open questions. Open questions are such as 'what did you get up to yesterday?' these questions encourage an answer to be given in such a way that you can develop on that and soon end up talking about one subject for hours! ... (read in full...)
Curvy girl lacking confidence, what can you suggest I should wear in the bedroom (apprpriate clothing for my body constitution) and what does a man want in bedroom?
Q. hi not really a problem here i just want to know whays that i can spice up my sex life. i am curvy girl and i lack in confidence A LOT is there any advice on how to help e.g. what i would look good in and what a man wants in the bedroom. any advice ...
A. 6 January 2008: im a curvy girl too i suggest french knickers as are best for shape nice sexy pair :P and you can get these nice bra's with like a corset but its soft material and floaty they look really good xox... (read in full...)
Why doesn't porn come with a 'How to get over it' manual?
Q. Hi I just need a little guidance and avice. My boyfriend of 7 years has (in my eyes, and his) been unfaithfull, We lived together, and after a blazing row we decided it was best i move out back to my mums.I did. We didnt see eachother...
A. 6 January 2008: Hun i think that you should give him another chance, he may have put single and stuff on his myspace cos he just wanted needless flirting and most guys watch porn, he says he loves you give him another chance but if he cheats on you and you know he ... (read in full...)
She allows her boyfriend to beat her. Why doesn't she leave? What can I do?
Q. I am so angry and pissed off; my best friend (who I grow up with) is in an abusive relationship. I knew that her and her boyfriend argued all the time...to the point where the two are always yelling at each other. And there’s the whole jealousy ...
A. 6 January 2008: You just have to be there for her she obviously loves him or is being forced to stay in the relationship, now if this is the case then you need to talk it over with a responsible adult who may be able to take it further x... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 6 January 2008: talk to her discuss this, i had almost the same problem you need to tell her you love her and you will try not to hurt her purposefully, tell her youl be gentle with her, when your alone and both relaxed just kiss her and when you go further be ... (read in full...)
How do you keep a secret that is burning you inside?
Q. How do you keep a secret from anyone, one secret which is mine (i kept for 6 years but can't cope anymore, it's killing me inside and making me mad) the other which is my families...
A. 6 January 2008: Secrets are hard to keep i know this from experience especially ones that are weighing you down, so i used this site and told someone that i thought would keep it and it helped lift the burden as i knew that it was confidential and they didnt know ... (read in full...)
My gf bleeded during sex, two months after her first and only before sexual experience with her ex. Did I took her virginity? How can you explain this?
Q. Hi there, any help will be greatly appreciated, more especially from a female. you see the thing is, my girlfriend was a virgin until she slept with her ex bf for the 1st time, but the thing is, she didn't feel any pain, and didn't even bleed, then ...
A. 6 January 2008: this type of question may be personal to some people but the hymen on her first time may not have broken which means techniqly she was still a virgin but in the sense of being penetrated she wasnt. You broke the hymen which means that she is no ... (read in full...)
How do I tell people I'm gay?
Q. hi, im 17 yrs old and become a bisexual at the age of 15 but never told anyone! except people on msn and stuff....how can i deal with this? and tell people im gay? please help!...
A. 6 January 2008: hey hun i can see how this may be hard for you, i suggest you start with either of your parents whoever is closest to you first and say that youve known for a few years now that you are bisexual and thats the way your alwyas gonna be hope that ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date my step-brother??
Q. i really like my step brother we are not blood releated just his mum got married to my dad do you think it is okay to date him?...
A. 6 January 2008: i dont think this is a good idea as it may cause rifts in your family life, however if you and him both feel the same its up to you good luck with your decision x... (read in full...)
I refuse to have sex with him but we cuddle instead. His wife didn't want him until he found me. What should I do?
Q. I have been involved with a man that is a neighbor in my apt complex he lives 2 doors down. He used to talk to me about how miserable he was with her,we were good friends and he said he loved talking to me and I helped him by listening to his ...
A. 6 January 2008: hunnie this guy has kids and is obviously not going to leave them, you have to tread carefully here he may love you but at the end of the day you have to do whats right ... (read in full...)
I believe he's telling me the truth - but is there any future in this?
Q. I have been in a 2 1/2yr affair with a married man. He is everything I have ever wanted. I didn't go looking for this, it just happened as if it were meant to be. He told me from the start, his marriage was broken due to infidelity,but he never ...
A. 6 January 2008: hes obviously not going to leave his wife, he has a child and seems to me to not have a prospect to give that up to live with you just remember that there obviously is a chid involved and any actions you may take may drastically change its life x... (read in full...)
He can't trust and he's retreated from me...I miss him, terribly!
Q. Iv'e been seeing a younger guy for about 2 months. It started out as friends, then got pretty serious.. Texting everyday, all day, talking everyday, seeing each other every other day. We got along really good. The only thing is he has some issues ...
A. 6 January 2008: dont push him into anything it seems like this guy needs some time but if you really love him let him know your there for him, once hes sorted his things out he may come running back to you x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 3 yrs don't want his father to know we are dating! How can I make him relax about this so that we don't have to hide??
Q. I've been going out with the same guy for 3 years. He's very commitment-phobic, and likes to keep his distance so he doesn't feel too tied down, but I know he still loves me. We'll see eachother maybe 3 times in a month, which is fine for me because ...
A. 6 January 2008: ive currently been with my bf for three years, now i didnt tell my dad i was in a relationship with him untill 4 days ago so im kinda in your boyfriends position. It may be hard for your boyfriend to tell his dad for many reasons but dont push him ... (read in full...)
He drove 5000 miles to see me (that's a long way!) Should I have let him m ove in with me?
Q. hello, i have been chatting on line with this really great guy for about a month now. its like we think the same and get along great. i have chatted with him on the phone a few times. well he drove over 5000 miles to meet me. he has family , not ...
A. 6 January 2008: I think that you did the right thing after all you only knew him for 1 day give him another call and have a chat with him thats always best x... (read in full...)
I'm shy - how do I get her number?
Q. im 20 and i like the 17year old cashier that works at the same store as me, its a little "corner store" type place. My problem is im too shy to actually ask her on a date or for her number, i can talk to her and make jokes with her but i just cant ...
A. 6 January 2008: i suggest that when your joking with her and having a laugh you just ask her (casually) if she would like to go for a drink with you after work sometime and go from there xox... (read in full...)
She's broken my heart. What can I do?
Q. I have a problem. I really, really, -REALLY- like this girl. I've known her for over a year, and we both admit we'd be great for each other. I've never felt any kind of close connection to anyone like I do with her. The only person who comes...
A. 6 January 2008: hun if you really like this girl then you wanna get in there quick and tell her you really like her and you love her, tell her you think shes really special and she means a lot to you, on the other hand if you really think that she likes this other ... (read in full...)
How can I get to be more confident?
Q. hi, ive been going out with this really nice, really good looking girl for around a month now, and ive tried to step the relationship up, but i find myself to nervous to kiss her and so all we ever do is hold hands etc... is there any advice...
A. 6 January 2008: are you nervous cos your inexperienced or because you dont know how she feels, message me back and il give you a few tops dont worry hun x... (read in full...)
Should I pursue this attraction or put it down to being a silly crush?
Q. I have an issue. I am married, but I find myself attracted to one of my co-workers. We have to work close to each other everyday. He is just so sweet,really funny, super nice, and he tells me at least once a day something nice about me to make me ...
A. 6 January 2008: remember this is a crush, your married who would you rather be with in the long term, you dont know if this guy loves you anyway, he sounds like someone to be good friends with but would you jepardise your marriage for someone your not sure about? x... (read in full...)
Will he react the same as before?
Q. I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet ...
A. 6 January 2008: OMG hun what you have to ask yourself is would you be able to support the child on your own, by the sound of this im not sure whether the guy loves you and would support the child,the choice is yours x x good luck ... (read in full...)
Shpould I call the cops?
Q. I'm not sure how to go about asking this, or even what I'm asking exactly. This guy (who is 26) has been talking to me online for a few years now, I usually ignore him because he annoys me and is a pervert. After I stopped talking to him on ...
A. 6 January 2008: i suggest you call the police as soon as possible show them his account where he has sent the messages to other girl as this is vital in court as evidence. x ... (read in full...)
How can I save this relationship?
Q. I have a problem with my gf she is starving me sexually, she is currently pregnancy but the problem started before that. we live together I have spoken to her several times but she is not improving at all. After several argument we decided to have ...
A. 6 January 2008: If the child she is pregnant with is yours then i would strongly advise you not to cheqat on her as you will lose her. I suggest that you just wait untill she will allow you to have sex with her, there are positions that allow you to have sex while ... (read in full...)
He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...
A. 6 January 2008: babe i understand how you feel, sometimes guys can get like this especially as it is to do with sex i suggest you talk about it and tell him it hurt you, im sure he is sorry. Are you sure he knew u were crying and felt so bad? Its how you feel abot ... (read in full...)
I accepted my husband back but I feel I am doing all the effort!
Q. for 2 yrs since my husband's dad died he has changed new job, selfish, wanted to do what he wants,lies. Anyway I finally kicked him out. 6 months later we are back together trying to work things out but i feel I am doing all the effort. A smal...
A. 6 January 2008: Hey hun i believe that perhaps this man is not worth your while if he is showing no affection for you and seems to be with other girls you deserve better. On the other hand there could be something that has become misunderstood somewhere along the ... (read in full...)
I feel low, and hurt, and very very lonely. And I don't know what to do to get out this rut. Help me..
Q. My boyfriend has just dumped me after several months of treating me like dirt on his shoe, this is only my own conclusion after a lot of talking to friends, until now I believed greatly the whole problems in the relationship, and the reason for the ...
A. 6 January 2008: hunnie! you have to be brave and think what idiots men can be, maybe at the moment you should stay with your friends and family and help boost your confidence, perhaps go to new places to make new friends who will be able to life you up and make you ... (read in full...)
My bf has been corresponding with another girlfriend.
Q. I think its all over because I've just found out my boyfriend of 10 years has been corresponding with yet another female friend that I knew nothing about. Why didn't tell me about her when I discovered that he likes to keep in touch with a number ...
A. 6 January 2008: Do you know exactly what has happened between him and these 'girly-friends' i know it may be a blow to know that you bf has been talking to other girls but you have to tak to him about it to be able to assess the situation and perhaps decide about ... (read in full...)
I woke up having sex with a friend of my FWB. I'm worried he will tell my FWB, whom I actually like!
Q. ive been seeing a guy for about 2 years he used 2 live near me when he was at uni but moved this summer, me and him are good friends and very close, and when he was here we used 2 be with each other all the time, we used to be sexual too. he's move...
A. 6 January 2008: hmmm i suggest that gettin that drunk in the first place was perhaps a bad idea, many of my friends have been in this situation and often if you tell the guy you accidently ended up having sex with that it was a mistake and you were delerious and ... (read in full...)
Is my g/f's job a potential problem for our relationship?
Q. My girlfriend has started working at a nightclub (as an assistant manager.) Not a stripclub, but a dance club. She's a recording artist and is well known in the entertainment scene here. I'm really not interested in dating a woman who is at the ...
A. 6 January 2008: if you 'strongly love each other' as you say you do then you should accept her job, shes obviously a hard working young woman and wants to try her best and achieve her goals in life. Just accept what she wants to do dont become jealous x... (read in full...)
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